Dotun Olubeko to see Charity Lawson's love for another man. Following Monday's season finale of, ET's Denny Directo spoke with the happy couple, and Dotun admitted that seeing his now-fiancée's feelings for other guys — mainly her runner-up, Joey Graziadei — was challenging to say the least.«It started off kind of easy and light, like, it's all goofy and we're in Barbie outfits, but then it gets more real and you see her feelings start to develop for someone else and that's tough,» he confessed.