insisted on coming with her daughter to at least make sure the living conditions were up to par for Ariela and the baby. But an overwhelmed Ariela ended up hating the apartment Biniyam chose for them to live in, and her mother also completely rejected it when she came to visit from her hotel room the next day.«I mean, I've been in other countries, but the poverty here is extreme,» Ariela's mom told her.She also bluntly told Biniyam, «I'm a mess right now.