WATCH: Cameron Merchant surprises Jules Robinson on her birthdayBefore appearing on Married At First Sight in 2017, where he was matched with Jules and fell in love, Cam was a professional cricketer in Canada.But after retiring from the sport in 2014, he found himself without a purpose and struggled to find the drive to even wake up in the morning.“I couldn't put pants on, and I was mentally and physically crippled,” he revealed on Gus Worland's Not An Overnight Success podcast.Things got so bad that he wound up without a home, at one time sleeping alone at Vancouver Airport for four days.He eventually returned to Sydney and crashed on a friend’s couch before seeking help at the Currumbin Clinic in Palm Beach.Cam is now living his happiest life as Jules' husband and Ollie's dad.“I remember sitting in a hospital bed, in mental rehab, and I remember thinking the only thing that was going to keep me going was that I hadn't been married yet, and I hadn't had kids,” Cam confessed.It was the thought of one day settling down and starting a family with a woman he loved that kept him going.In a way, Cam owes that moment to wife Jules and son Ollie, who helped him realise those dreams years later.