The Masked Singer and Have You Been Paying Attention. But when she’s not starring as a panellist or making us cry-laugh in her Netflix special Unqualified Loser, Urzila lives a quiet life with her wife Julie and her two kids in New Zealand.WATCH: Urzila Carlson’s hilarious comedy setThe 47-year-old, who was born in Johannesburg, South Africa, now lives in the suburb of Henderson in Auckland.Urzila prefers to keep details of her family life strictly private, never posting photos of Julie and their kids on social media and rarely discussing them in interviews.In 2022 she did disclose a few more tidbits of info about her relationship on Mamamia's podcast No Filter, revealing that she met wife Julie when she was 32 years old. "I met her at a rugby game, where all good lesbians meet.