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26.06.2022 / 14:53
Chantelle Otten's tips for being a sexually-confident singleton
WATCH: Chantelle Otten talks about sex and disability on Dylan Alcott's podcastBumble’s ‘Modern Romance’ report found that 43 per cent of singletons surveyed reckon they’re at their sexual peak, leaving the other 57 per cent a little lost.After a pandemic, changes to our bodies and the horrors of modern dating, it can be hard to feel sexy, so WHO spoke with sexologist Chantelle Otten to learn how to get our mojo back.“Your best sexual partner is yourself. You need to start with solo work and really take some time to invest in yourself, invest in the way that you feel and your sexual self-esteem,” Chantelle tells WHO exclusively.She suggests everything from trying sex toys, to dressing up in lingerie or getting your kit off and taking nude photos – whatever feels good to you.Chantelle Otten is a sexologist who helps educate Aussies on all sorts of sexual topics.“It can also be things just like dancing naked, going to sleep naked, starting to get really in touch with like the sensory experience of being naked,” she adds.For the more adventurous types, Chantelle recommends listening to orgasmic meditation (yes, that’s a real thing), and for those just starting out it’s totally okay to “take it slow”.RELATED: Pleasure guaranteed! These are the cult sex toys Aussie women can’t get enough of“We, as femmes are raised to not be sexual or not be sexual enough that we would threaten the other genders,” Chantelle explains.