In 1999 Kobe Bryant was just 20 when he laid eyes on wife-to-be Vanessa , on the set of a music video. April 19 would have been their 19th wedding anniversary. However, in January this year, Kobe and their daughter Gianna died in a helicopter crash along with six family friends and the pilot. So their wedding anniversary is now one of the many poignant dates that Vanessa now has to face on her own.