'The first time I was allowed to hug my mum in 18 months was when she was in her coffin'
28.01.2022 - 09:47
/ manchestereveningnews.co.uk
In September 2021, Lynne Hughes was finally able to hug her mum for the first time in nearly two years after seeing her through panes of glass, across lawns and behind acrylic screens in sealed pods.
Tragically, for that final hug Lynne was leaning over mum Doreen's coffin.
Care home resident Doreen Sutton, 91, had died after being rushed to hospital following a fall. Her death had been unexpected so her family were not with her.
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From Monday, care home residents will be able to receive 'unlimited' visitors as the restrictions to tackle the Omicron variant are eased by the Department of Health.
For many families, this will no doubt be a time of celebration.
But for those who have lost their loved ones it has prompted sadness and anger as they reflect on a pandemic, and a Government response, which left them unable to hug their relatives as their hard-working carers, for many months, struggled to find PPE, access testing or ascertain whether patients coming from hospital had tested positive for Covid.
In the wake of the ‘partygate’ scandal and ahead of the Sue Gray report into the alleged flouting of lockdown rules at Number 10, Lynne is both devastated and angry.
She told the Manchester Evening News : “We weren’t allowed to hug my mum for nearly two years as restrictions continued.
“We saw her through the window, outside, and in a pod where my mum would just walk away because she couldn’t hear us and didn’t understand.
“I couldn't embrace my mum until she was lying in a coffin, and I kissed her on the head to say goodbye.
“We’ve been robbed of my mum's last years and so has she. She loved to hug, she loved to be held.
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