It has been a “very heart wrenching” time for Erika Jayne as she settles into her new home nearly three months after The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star announced her split from attorney Thomas “Tom” Girardi, a source close to production EXCLUSIVELY tells HollywoodLife. The end of their 21-year marriage is even more real, now that Erika has officially left the Pasadena mansion that she once shared with Tom.