If you’re looking for inspiration ahead of the New Year, Meghan Markle’s New Year’s resolution before meeting Prince Harry might be the sign you’ve been waiting for. It’s crazy to think that less than six months after she made this New Year’s pledge, she met her future husband and began her path to becoming the Duchess of Sussex! But what, exactly, did she resolve to do? Don’t worry, hopefuls—it’s a great resolution for anyone, royal or otherwise.