LalalaLetMeExplain breaks down biggest relationship red flags and how to spot them
12.02.2022 - 17:47
/ ok.co.uk
Many women have come to rely on LalalaLetMeExplain’s no-frills approach to love and relationship advice. Now, OK!'s love and relationships columnist, social media sensation and author of Block, Delete, Move On, has devised a definitive list of the men we should swerve without fail.
Make sure your red flag radar is in full working order so you (if you’re a heterosexual woman) and your loved ones, can show Mr Wrong the door… Red Flag 1: He won't stop telling me he's a feminist Lala says: “There are two types of this guy. First, the one who knows he isn’t a feminist by any stretch of the imagination but pretends to be one because he realises that doing so makes it much easier to manipulate women into trusting him.Then there’s the type who genuinely thinks that he’s a feminist but also believes that his feminism entitles him to earn respect from women.
Deep down, he feels that we owe him something for defending our corner. It can be easy to fall into the trap of handing out medals to nice men for simply being nice because the bar is set so low.
Steer clear.” Most likely to say: “I hear what you’re saying, but not all men are like that.” Red Flag 2: When he only thinks about himself Lala says: “There are two types of narcissist – covert (the ‘woe is me’ types who blame the world for their lack of success) and overt (think arrogant, like Donald Trump).They’ll always stay in touch with you, at least once a year, usually on birthdays or significant events. Why? Because they like to keep people interested in them, even if they have no intention of ever making a relationship work – they can’t stand the thought of someone not wanting them.They’ll also use negging (using back-handed compliments or outright insults intentionally to
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