Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade are doing their best to raise their children to be their most authentic selves.«My focus when it comes to any of my kids is to let them know who they are so that when other people's opinions about them are formed, it's not hitting them,» Wade told The couple has five children they raise together: Kaavia, 2; Zaire, 19; Zaya, 13; Xavier, 7 and Dahveon, 19, Wade's nephew.