, podcaster, and writer doesn't need to star in a video in order to be granted an invite to the Video Music Awards. A decade later, she's so much more than just that girl from that video. Which is probably why MTV tapped the 32-year-old as a presenter at this year's show.Ahead of the ceremony, which is taking place at the Prudential Center in Newark, New Jersey, EmRata walked the red, ahem, pink carpet in an updated version of the handkerchief dress—a staple of 2000s fashion trends.