Rebecca Rubin Film and Media ReporterIn “Dating & New York,” the film’s central romance isn’t your grandparents’ — or even your parents’ — standard meet cute.The main characters, single, 20-something New Yorkers Milo (Jaboukie Young-White) and Wendy (Francesca Reale), don’t bump into each other at a bookstore or in the produce section of Trader Joe’s.