Reddit, he shared his point of view and asked if he was in fact being an asshole for doing so. The subject line read: "AITA [Am I the Asshole] for asking my wife not to dress so frumpy and like a mum all the time?" "Since she gave birth back in February, the way she dresses is completely different. At first I thought she was just trying to be comfortable post-birth, but now that almost seven months have passed it seems like this change is permanent," he began the post.