and star of the bestseller's , said she has “kind of given up” on keeping her home completely spotless now that she has three tiny kids underfoot. I mean, she still has a flexible attitude toward the meaning of the word “tidy” and I can basically guarantee that her home is still tidier than mine, but still. “Up until now, I was , so I did my best to keep my home tidy at all times,” Kondo said in a media webinar, per . “I have kind of given up on that in a good way for me.