Gallery: Injuries, off-screen romance, and hazy memories! Everything we learned from Friends: The Reunion (BANG Showbiz)Stella – who has been married to Anthony since 2003 - explained that she never had an agreement with her husband that he should be part of the film and that the 'Silence of the Lambs' star only joined the cast after reading her script. She told The Times newspaper: "After I wrote it I gave it to him and said, 'Look at it.