Olivia Wilde claims that people "assume" she's "abandoned" her children, every time she is photographed without them. Wilde, 38, is regularly photographed out and about, more so following the drama of her latest film "Don't Worry Darling." The actress and director shares custody of her two children with ex Jason Sudeikis. "If I’m photographed not with my kids, people assume I have abandoned them, like my kids are just somewhere in a hot car without me," Wilde told Elle magazine in the November cover issue published Thursday. "The suggestion is that I have abandoned my role as a mother." Olivia Wilde wears a shirt that reads "Pleasing" on her way to gym in Los Angeles on Oct.