Emily Ratajkowski Reveals If She Believes in Sex on the 1st Date: ‘It Speaks to Power Dynamics’

02.11.2022 - 03:33 / usmagazine.com

Breaking it down. Emily Ratajkowski opened up about sex on the first date — and the reasons why it sometimes might be better to hold out.

“I’ve been thinking about this a lot because it speaks so much to power dynamics and sex on the first date is the ultimate example of that,” Ratajkowski, 31, said during the Monday, October 31, episode of her “High Low With EmRata” podcast. “Because you’re dealing with gender dynamics in such a specific little vacuum of a moment. I think If you’re not ready to be vulnerable, that is a reason not to have sex on the first date.”

The model explained that even if she isn’t interested in interacting with the person again, she doesn’t enjoy feeling like a goal that’s been met.

“I still hate when I feel like there’s a part of them that feels like, ‘Yeah, I hit that’ kind of vibe,” she shared. “Even if they’re not the kind of guy who would say that out loud but you can just feel it. That’s a reason not to sleep with a man.”

After calling it quits with Sebastian Bear McClard, her husband of over four years, in July, the England native has gotten candid about her newly single status. On Monday’s podcast episode, she shared her theory on the different types of men she’s come across in the dating pool.

“There are babies, there are monsters and then there are baby monsters,” she claimed. “The babies are the men who need to be tended to and reassured at every turn. The monsters who are like, ‘Sorry that your mom died but want to come over?’ And then the third are the worst … and those are the men that I can’t handle. They need reassurance, they need to be cradled and suckle at the teat **. But then they’re also like, ‘Leave me alone though, woman.'”

The Gone Girl star, sho seemingly came out as bisexual