Rumer Willis recalled the first time she had sex in a sneak peek of her upcoming Red Table Talk appearance.“When I lost my virginity when I was 18, I was more concerned with the shame that I was feeling at not having done it,” the actress, 32, told hosts Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith and in the episode, premiering on Tuesday, October 20. “I was not abused or it wasn’t rape, but I didn’t say yes.