Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are going to spend the holidays together this year for the first time since rekindling their romance and it's going to be a family affair, a source tells ET.Affleck and Lopez have made no secret of their passion for one another — making a glamorous red carpet appearance in Venice last week that had fans in a frenzy — and our source says the couple «could not be more in love.» «It is like they never broke up, but everything is way better this time,» the source says