After 21 years together, Erika Jayne and Tom Girardi have called it quits. “After much consideration, I have decided to end my marriage to Tom Girardi,” The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star, 49, said in a statement to E! News on Tuesday. “This is not a step taken lightly or easily,” she continued, explaining, “I have great love and respect for Tom and for our years and the lives we built together.”