Amanda Bynes' family is making a decision while she remains under psychiatric hold — they don't want her on-and-off fiance coming anywhere near her."They do not want her ex-fiancé around her, and he has been instructed to have no contact with her," an insider told Daily Mail of Paul Michael. "He does not seem to have her best interests in mind and her family has nothing good to say about him."Amanda and Paul got engaged last summer, but they soon split up, only to get back together.